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Strap-on FAQ: Harness, Dildo, and Pegging Questions Answered

 

What Is The Best Harness And Dildo Combination For Pegging?

I am frequently asked by readers interested in pegging to recommend a good beginner harness and dildo. I answered this question rather extensively in the following guides:

Best Beginner Pegging Dildos

Best Strap-on Harnesses For Beginners

Any combination of the harnesses and dildos in those guides will serve your needs very well. They’re all proven, high-quality products that deliver optimal performance.

I know readers are looking for a very specific answer when they ask this question, but this is as specific as I can get without knowing your individual needs and desires. I included a wide variety of harnesses and dildos in each guide for this exact reason.

 

 

Which Plus-Size Harnesses Do You Recommend?

Answered here: Best Plus-Size Strap-ons Guide

I strongly recommend the SpareParts Joque Harness (Size B), which fits hips up to 65 inches. The Joque is one the best harnesses ever made: extremely comfortable, a strong performer, and it even includes strategically-placed vibrator pockets as an added bonus. It’s an excellent harness for people of all sizes.

If you want a bigger harness, the Divine Diva is currently the largest harness available on the market. It fits up to 82 inch hips and offers a padded back for extra support.

 

 

Could You Recommend A Cheap Beginner Strap-on? (Budget Strap-on Advice)

Answered Here: Cheap Strap-ons Will Ruin Your Sex Life

Quality strap-on sex is highly dependent upon the quality of your equipment. For that reason, I base my product recommendations on safety, reliability, and comfort rather than price.

With that qualifier in mind, the following strap-on recommendations are as “budget” as I go:

 

Budget Dildo Recommendations

The Tantus Silk Medium, which I consider the best beginner pegging dildo ever, is normally priced around $35 at various sex stores. That’s an excellent deal given that it’s a high-quality product and phthalate-free.

The Tantus Grab Bag, which is essentially a dildo outlet store, is also a good place to go for bargains. Most of the toys on this page are under $30, which is an amazing price for dildos that are both well-designed and phthalate-free. The Leisure and Silk Medium are the best beginner pegging dildos available there. The Vamp and Silk Large are good harness-compatible dildos as well, but are a bit too girthy for anal beginners.

 

Budget Harness Recommendations

The most inexpensive harness that I recommend is the Malibu Terra Firma, which is the nylon version of my absolute favorite leather harness, the Terra Firma.

 

 

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Do You Recommend …? (Product Recommendation Policy)

I am frequently asked by readers to comment on a specific harness or dildo that they’re considering buying. Here is my standard response regarding product recommendations:

If the harness, dildo, or sex toy that you’re interested in does not appear in my strap-on buying guides, then I do not have personal experience with it and therefore cannot in good conscious recommend it.

However, there are a handful of sex toy manufacturers that I trust based on their proven reputation for creating safe, high-quality products. If the sex toy you’re inquiring about is made by one of the following companies, then it’s very likely a quality product and worth the price.

Recommended Harness Manufacturers: ASLAN Leather, SpareParts, Stormy Leather, Tantus

Recommended Dildo Manufacturers: Tantus, Vixen Creations, Fun Factory

Again, if the product you’re asking about is not mentioned on my website or manufactured by one of the above companies, then it does not get my recommendation.

 

 

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about-my-strap-on My name is Pamela Pegwell, and I have been a strap-on enthusiast and pegging expert for over ten years. My goal here at My Strap-on is to help you find the right toy for your needs. You can connect with me here:

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